How to Talk So Your Husband Will Listen Workbook

THE WORKBOOK + ONLINE COURSE

How To Talk So Your Husband Will Listen

The only method that will take your husband from defensive to dependable by authentically presenting the problem, even if he normally jumps to conclusions or feels criticized.

Yes! I Need This

You're so exhausted by your husband's reaction to anything you tell him, from the simple requests to empty the dishwasher, to plans you want to make for your next vacation. It seems like no matter what you do you're either ignored or the conversation becomes a fight, with blame fired back and forth while your kids watch in the corner.

Does this sound like you?

You’ve tried EVERYTHING like asking nicely, yelling, begging, and pleading, but you are still stuck. No matter what you do, it feels like you're in a tug of war with the family, trying to meet everyone's needs alone.

You’re tired of wasting time, money, and energy on methods that give you zero results. What your friends do with their husbands doesn't seem to work with yours, your therapist is divorced, and no one gets how important it is to you to stay married.

You do a ton of work on the topic, but you’re simply NOT seeing the results. You've read the books, gone to therapy, worked on yourself, but he's still feeling frustrated and unable to communicate his needs.

You’re not sure another workbook + course can help you. But you wish someone would just guide you. You're tired of being the one to do all the work and tear up when you think about what a divorce would do to your kids.

YOU'RE NOT ALONE

You’re not being heard for the same reason that you want to parent your children differently...

I used to think that I wasn't worthy of being listened to when my husband would ignore me or leave me to do everything alone, but in the quest to save my marriage, I discovered that it wasn't a worth issue.

It was the fact that I only knew how to change other people's behavior based on what my mom and dad showed me with their authoritarian (do as I say) parenting methods & communication style.

Once I realized that I wasn't effective because I was talking like I was my husband's authoritarian parent and not his partner, I was finally able to craft my message in a way that I could both be heard and inspire him to behave differently.

IMAGINE THE POSSIBILITY

What if I told you there was a better way?

Imagine watching your husband help your son process his emotions after he fell and skinned his knee. Or walking into the bedroom to the piles of clean clothes already folded on the bed and you getting to climb into the tub for a hot bath while he puts them away. For one of my clients, this method meant her husband started actually spending more time at home instead of away at work all week. These are the kinds of results that happen with the husband you already have when you communicate in a way he'll listen to.

No more getting defensive, taking everything as criticism, jumping to conclusions, or fights over your different views on parenting. Take your communication with your husband from a dead-end street to knowing that you've shared your message in a way that will make sure you can

depend on him to take it seriously.

Your life before the workbook:

Tired of feeling like the burden is on you to do everything around the house

Wishing your husband would learn active listening skills or stop making it about him

Frustrated that your husband isn't parenting the way the kids need him to

Not talking because you're tired of his defensiveness or don't want to argue

Your life after the workbook:

Able to share when you need some help and actually get it

Feeling heard and understood because his behavior changes after you share your message

So grateful that your husband is finally giving the kids what they need

Comfortable sharing what's bothering you because you know it will lead to a solution

INTRODUCING

How to Talk So Your Husband Will Listen

The only workbook and supporting online training that shows you how to Share The WOV™ to take your husband from defensive to dependable, even if he often dismisses your concerns, immediately says no, or feels criticised when you ask for help.

THE CURRICULUM

What You'll Learn

Instead of those nice requests or authoritarian commands, you're going to learn exactly how to identify what's on your heart and share it in a way that will touch his. I call this method Sharing The WOV™ and it's the most effective way to get the best out of others by leading with your vision.

PART 1: PREPARATION

Grow Awareness

With the included assessments, you'll get a clearer picture of what to ask for help with and when to talk about other solutions.

Discover your strengths & challenges and how they're impacting you each day

Learn what tasks are the real problem areas so you know how to tackle those tough chores

Analyze his capabilities so you can work together to figure out how to work with those challenges

Get my ADHD-busting hints and tricks for common household problem areas like cleaning & cooking

PART 2: EXPLANATION

Categorize Your Concerns

The process begins with gaining clarity on the types of concerns you might have and how his inaction/action is impacting you.

How to break your complaints down into the type of impact you're experiencing

Learn the fastest way to get help without any communication effort on your part at all

Why he's not motivated to change his behavior and exactly how to get him motivated

When you're asking the wrong person for what you need because of your childhood wounds or beliefs

PART 3: APPLICATION

Craft Your Message

Now that you know how the process works, you'll use the worksheets to apply it to your scenario and plan what to say.

Learn why his behavior is really bothering you and what you need him to do about it

Exactly how to deliver your message without him feeling criticized, defensive, or ignoring you altogether

What to say to inspire action without making a single request or feeling like you're his parent

How to make sure your child gets taken care of by a loving parent, even when you're not around

PART 4: DELIVERY

Inspire Action

With your message ready, you'll get guidance on exactly how to share it so he'll listen and learn how to manage his reaction.

Discover when it's not the right time to share your message and why

Exactly how to prepare for the conversation so you won't be ignored

When to stop talking and what to do with his fear or excuses

How to manage his reaction so your message isn't lost

BONUSES (VALUE $197)

ENROLL NOW AND YOU'LL ALSO GET THESE 3 BONUS RESOURCES TOTALLY FREE!

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THE #1 BONUS: FREE WOV CLARITY CALL!

After you've worked through the process, you can schedule a FREE 30-minute call with me to answer any questions you might have or get clarity on your message if you got stuck anywhere in the process!

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THE #2 BONUS: CARE TASK CHECKLISTS & KIDS MENU CANVA TEMPLATE!

Get checklists that make these undesirable tasks easier to accomplish plus a Canva template you can customize to give your kids a menu for the nights you don't want to cook a meal.

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THE #3 BONUS: MORNING KICKOFF MEDITATION

Since your energy is the most important part of your delivery, use this recorded meditation to prepare for the call or start your days off with the right mindset and intention.

PLUS, YOU'LL ALSO GET

The support you need to succeed:

VIDEO TRAINING

Each part of the proces has a short, 5 minute explaining exactly how to do it so you'll never feel lost!

FACEBOOK GROUP

You can always continue learning and connect with other wives who are just like you in our Facebook Group.

WORKBOOK & CHECKLIST

You get a 28 page editable PDF workbook that includes assessments, worksheets, and checklists.

That’s A Total Value Of Over $397!

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BONUS: Free 30-Minute WOV Clarity Call to Perfect Your Message

BONUS: Care Task Checklist (For You, Husband, or Kids!)

BONUS: Customizable Kids Menu Canva Template to Make Meal Time Easy

BONUS: On Demand Morning Kickoff Meditation

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Mom of Two Under 10 + Parent Coach

MAMA K.

“I need to ask him, but I need to be clear about what it is I need from him. Not just this blanket, "I need time to myself." Now it's OK, what does that mean to me?.... Thank you. From the deepest reaches of my soul. Thank you.”

Mom of Two Under 13 + Homeschooling Teacher

MAMA B.

“I did my WOV about how I need him to be here more often, and then I shut up. Then he spent 20 minutes telling me how everything was my fault (the car, the mortgage, the expenses, the trip to the amusement park... His usual avoidance song & dance), so I sang a song in my head and enjoyed the sunshine. ;) Thanks for that tip!

And then eventually he came around to (summarized) "I'm overwhelmed with work and can't set boundaries with the kids when I'm working from home so I'm not effective as a work-from-home employee." And this was GREAT because I realized IT'S NOT ABOUT ME. I realized that I had made up this story that he was avoiding me because of something I'd done wrong. It's been a HUGE weight off my shoulders and has led me to a place of compassion. And... He messaged me on Monday afternoon telling me that he'd be home on Thursday evening. Win! :))”

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30 Day Happiness Guarantee

If you don't feel the value you received from this product matches or exceeds the time, energy, and expertise I put into creating it, you can request a refund in your learning portal within 30 days and get your money back.

Is the How To Talk So Your Husband Will Listen Workbook right for me?

This is perfect for you if:

You're an awakening woman who wants to be more conscious in all areas of your life

You want to parent differently than your parents did and don't like authoritarian leadership

You are ready to inspire others to change, grow, or move toward a new vision for the future

You work or live with someone who has ADHD or you might have it yourself

This is not for you if:

Your husband violates your personal boundaries and you are not safe to communicate with him

It is more important for you to be right than it is for you to be heard

You just don't have the time and effort to put into making these changes in your life

You're a leader or professional communicator, inspiring people already :)

Here’s What Happens When You Buy

ENROLL IN HOW TO TALK SO YOUR HUSBAND WILL LISTEN

Click the button below to purchase your workbook and get access to the online course and resources.

RECEIVE AN EMAIL WITH ALL THE DETAILS

You'll get an email with your login information and you'll get separate training emails as well.

GET IMMEDIATE ACCESS TO THE COURSE

If you want to do everything at once, you can go through all the videos and start using the process right away!

I'M READY TO BE HEARD

MEET YOUR MENTOR

Hello, I'm Beth

I'm a Certified Conscious Marriage & Family Alchemist (coach) who figured out how to use the conflict in my marriage to grow in self-awareness so I could save our family from divorce + create the marriage that I, and my kids, deserve.

I'm the author of The Authentic Wife: Uncaging Yourself Through Marriage, host of The Authentic Wife Show, and have been coaching wives just like you since 2017.

Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course begin and end?

You can sign up anytime and take this whenever and wherever it's convenient for you.

Do I get lifetime access to the course material?

Yes! You can download the workbook and you'll also receive training emails in addition to your online course.

What’s the difference between this program and all the other programs about marriage communication?

This method only asks you to be more, not less, of yourself. It helps you craft a message that is 100% authentic, meaning that you don't have to pretend to be someone you're not to improve the relationship.

What if I buy the How To Talk So Your Husband Will Listen Workbook + Course and hate it?

The coach in me would tell you to do shadow integration work, but the business owner in me will send you a refund if you request one within 30 days. :)

Will this actually work on my husband?

This method is husband-approved and works because it gives your husband's big brain a chance to solve a problem, which he will find interesting, and helps him see how he can serve you in a way that really matters. I haven't met a guy yet who didn't feel inspired and encouraged when WOV is used properly.

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